Expanding Joy Coaching

Being a conscious creator is not a part-time job.  In fact, it is not a full-time job.  It’s a way of life.  To be truly effective at consciously creating the life of joy, passion and purpose you came here to live, it has to be a day by day, hour by hour, minute by minute practice.

We live in a world that is created to be dualistic, and a society that is dominated by fear (more so than many others).  Most of us in western society have been unconsciously immersed in that story of duality and fear most of our lives.  We have been well trained in disconnection… well trained to forget the Truth of who we are.  So, to remember the Truth that you are always connected, you are always worthy, you are always whole, and that you are love at your core consistently enough to attract in manifestations that match that Truth on a consistent basis, is not an easy task.

But it is what you are here to do.  If you are attracted to reading this material and it resonates with you, then you have agreed in this life time to be a Conscious Creator.  You have agreed to not only forget who you are in this life time, but to also remember and grow through the experience while still here in this body and then use this knowledge to pick and choose what you create on a conscious level.

And after you agree to this journey, there is no going back.  Your stream just starts getting faster.  So it becomes more and more uncomfortable, emotionally and physically, to try to paddle upstream in unconsciousness.  But not to worry, you are not being thrown into the stream without a good sturdy boat, a paddle and a guide.  You just need to use them.  Support is all around you.  You are being guided from within, from without, and all around.   The ideas, circumstances, people, books, classes etc. are all there waiting to support you.  To give you every tool you could ever need to navigate this thing called life.   But again, it is up to you to say YES day by day, hour by hour, minute by minute.

We are so often worried about what other people think of us.  Do they like us?  Do they approve? Are they making fun of me? Will they be disappointed if “god forbid..” we make a mistake?

So here is the reality…. People are not nearly as interested in you as you think they are.  I don’t mean this to be unkind.  It’s not that they don’t care.  It’s just that the reality is that they are just as much in their heads as you!  They are way too busy worrying about what others think of them or worried that you might find out all their faults, that they really rarely spend much time noticing your mistakes and worries.

So take a breath and let it go.  Your practice is not getting them to love you or approve of you anyway.  You practice is learning to love and approve of yourself.. faults, foibles and all.

Wanted to share this beautiful message and larger version of the picture I will send out in this month’s e-newsletter.  It goes perfectly with the message for this month. (see this month’s message listed in previous blog)

A soul looks like a spark of light, as all souls emerge from the same creational source or thought consciousness. The journey has begun. the soul spirals through the grids (matrix) of creation, entering one or more points on the grids of experience. The soul follows the path of the slinky effect often arriving in a physical body. No matter where it experiences, its journey and programing (DNA in the physical), will always remain the same – to find its way home, back to source, origin, where it is reunited with source and becomes whole once again.  from http://www.crystalinks.com/soultravel.html

Did you know you came into this world to forget who you are?  It seems like a ridiculous concept until you understand the purpose behind it.

You are a spiritual being in a human body.  The authentic self part of you chose this journey into unconsciousness.  Why?  To more fully experience the truth of who you are through experiencing the exact opposite of it!  Think about it…. Don’t you appreciate physical wellbeing & freedom on a whole deeper level after your bone has healed and you get your cast taken off?  Don’t you appreciate prosperity on a much deeper level after years of barely scraping by.  Don’t you appreciate your loving partnership on a much deeper level after experiencing previous partners that did not respect you?

Your soul wanted to experience disconnection, unconsciousness, & fear in the early part of your life in order to more fully appreciate connection, consciousness, love & joy in this later part of your journey.

So now is the time to remember.  Your soul has been calling you back to Truth for a while.  Are you ready to listen and experience more of the fruits of your labor?

So what’s next?  As you deepen into the Truth of who you are… that you are an expressing of Source in form, love expressing, a creative being at heart, then you get to start to shine the light of who you are in the world.  You get to start to support others in shining their light.  You get to start sharing your unique creative gift in this world with passion and power.

Now doesn’t THAT sound fun!!!

So, I shared during the last blog that a 5th Core Ego Belief was revealed to me last week.  So today I want to talk about the 5th Authentic Self Truth that counters it.

The 5th Core Ego Belief was : I have no control/ no power

This is based on the incorrect assumption that everything in life is done “to” us and we have to “fight” to get what we want out of life.  So the result of these belief systems if either the feeling of hopelessness and helplessness or the need to control everything and everyone around us, which is usually ultimately futile. Both are extremely draining

So the 5th Authentic Self Truth is : My power is within & the Universe/Spirit/ Source is has it handled!

This Truth is based on the knowledge of the Authentic Self that you are born an inherent creator. From your belief systems, through the Law of Attraction, you have the power to create your life every day! And no need to control anything because the universe can always orchestrate it all much more effectively than you ever could!

Here’s the crux of it.

What you DO have control over, in order to create the life you desire, is:

Your beliefs, your emotions, your perception, your actions, & your intentions (that’s alot!).

What you DON’T have control over is:

1) Other people : other people have free will too and it is none of your business what they do! And you don’t need to worry about them anyway.  When you look within and change your beliefs, they will actually naturally change to match your new vibration or the universe will orchestrate to move them out of your way!

2) How it all unfolds – your job is to get clear on your beliefs and intentions and then to SURRENDER and let the universe do it’s job.  Only then will the ideas, circumstances and inspired action unfold to support you in creating what you desire.  And here’s the fun part, when you have the entire power of the Universe/Spirit/Source behind you, it is SO MUCH EASIER!

So there you have it.  The 5th Core Ego Belief and Authentic Self Truth have unfolded.

Who knows if there will be more… I am open and excited to see what flows from Source through me next!

Try it sometime… you just may like it.